Four Steps to Better Kissing

Kissing is art. The statement may be too cliched. But it's true. You can learn the technicalities, see the demos, but when it comes to actually kissing somebody, it's absolutely different. Applying all that you have learnt isn't as easy and sometimes may also come across as practiced. While kissing somebody its important to go with the flow and follow what your body says. But still there are some helpful tips that might come handy as you keep trying to incorporate them. See these easy tips and help yourself towards being a better kisser.

It's All About Lips

Since kissing is all about lips, maintain healthy and beautiful lips always. Brush them softly with a little bit of Vaseline, lip balm or sugar. This will keep them soft, supple and pink.

 

Look At The Lips

A lot has been said about looking in your partner's eyes when you are kissing. An engaging gaze is important to hold your partner, but focusing your gaze on your partner's lips will further intensify the kiss and his/her desire for getting kissed. It shows that you are completely into the kiss. Make him/her go mad with desire with a gaze flickering from the eyes to the lips, and back from the lips to the eyes.

Use Your Hands

Using your hands is very, very important in a kiss, especially if its not the first kiss. What you want this kiss to lead to will be determined by where are your hands during the kiss. If you holding your partner's face in your hands, it is usually a loving kiss limited just to kissing. If your hands are on her waist/ his chest, you want the kiss to culminate into love making.

Grabbing hands, accompanied by a throbbing kiss usually shows sexual hunger and urgency to make mad love. Such lovemaking is often aggressive clothes ripping lovemaking.

 

Experiment

Do not stick to one type of kissing. There are a lot of kissing techniques that you can try. Avoid monotony and make kissing exciting. By trying different types of kisses regularly.

Check out more kissing tips for a madly passionate kiss. 

Period Blues???????Not anymore!

What are periods???I hope you know, coz if u dont, this article is not about intricacies of periods and its side effects at all. Periods are usually associated with cramps, hot flashes, mood swings,etc. But did you know-supercharged sex drive is one of major advantages of your periods!! And you can maximize your pleasure if you know what is happening to your body from phase to phase.
Days 1-5 : Your period kicks off on the day your flow starts. Levels of reproductive hormones start to rise which helps pull you out of your PMS blues. While you might experience pelvic pain, there is a soothing effect too - oxytocin, the chemical that causes cramps also helps make you feel more in love with your boyfriend. As you can already guess, period week is the prime time for having sex.
Days 6-13: Your periods are over by now, and your are now in pre-ovulation phase. Your reproductive hormones are on the way up which makes you feel extroverted, optimistic and confident. Your libido also increases before ovulation. Hence, sex at this time of the month can be incredible.
Days 14-17: You are now in the mid of your cycle and must have entered ovulation phase by now. This is the time of the month when most of the women hit the perfect baby making time. Your mind instinctively urges you to mate and subconsciously you dress sexier during this time, so as to attract men.
Days 18-23: By now your ovulation phase will come to an end. The reproductive hormones will now we replaced by progesterone. This has a dampening effect. Many women report feelings of sluggishness and sleepiness. However the plus side is that progesterone helps your body burn more fat during exercise.So this is the best time of the month to work out.
Days 24-28: Now you are under the dreaded PMS attack. The 'joys' of PMS don't need a mention here. Remember that this is the time to pamper yourself. Have a glass of wine, take a bubble bath, or ask your boyfriend to give you a back massage. In short indulge in all the things you enjoy doing and when the cycle starts again, to would be back to your confident self.
The article has been sourced from Cosmopolitan

9 Words Women Say & Men Hear But Never Get

(1) Fine: This is the word women use to end an argument when they are right and you need to shut up.


(2) Five Minutes: If she is getting dressed, this means a half an hour. Five minutes is only five minutes if you have just been given five more minutes to watch the game before helping around the house.

(3) Nothing: This is the calm before the storm. Nothing means something, and you should be on your toes. Arguments that begin with nothing usually end in fine.


(4) If You Want To: This is a dare, not permission. Don't Do It!


(5) Loud Sigh: This is actually a word, but is a non-verbal statement often misunderstood by men. A loud sigh means she thinks you are an idiot and wonders why she is wasting her time standing here and arguing with you about nothing. (Refer back to # 3 for the meaning of nothing.)


(6) That's Okay: This is one of the most dangerous statements a women can make to a man. That's okay means she wants to think long and hard before deciding how and when you will pay for your mistake.


(7) Thanks: When accompanied by a smile, then a woman is thanking you, do not question, or faint, just enjoy the moment, however if the woman says 'Thanks a lot' - that is PURE sarcasm and she is not thanking you at all.


(8) Whatever: Is a woman's way of saying F-- YOU!


(9) Don't Worry About It, I've Got It: Another dangerous statement, meaning this is something that a woman has told a man to do several times, but is now doing it herself. This will later result in a man asking 'What's wrong?' For the woman's response refer to # 3.

Musts For A Great Honeymoon

Plan it!

• Get down to a budget, pick a destination that interests you both, the best time to go there, what will be the weather conditions, what do you want to see there, what would you want to do etc etc. Make a list of the things that mean the most to you, and compare notes. Marriage is going to call for lots of compromise, and this is the place to start.
• When you do your calculations, make sure you take everything into account- transportation ticket prices for air, sea or ground travel, port fees, car, taxi, food snacks, meals, in-room service, entertainment entry fees, passes, tickets, shopping gifts for yourselves and those at home, and miscellaneous items. Perhaps, also count on some wedding-gift money to add to your stake.
• If going abroad get your passport and visas in place before the wedding.

Plan Smaller things

• Get a travel agent. It doesn't cost any more, and he or she can make all the arrangements without you having to worry about them.
• When you make reservations, let them know you're on your honeymoon. You never know if something good might surprise you two just because they know you are honeymooning. Like you may get upgraded to a better room at no charge or may be receive a welcome bottle of champagne.
• Rent a car to travel around locally.

Schedule it

• Honeymoon is passionate and romantic and should include in-room massages and spend time in a private Jacuzzi. Schedule it in a way that maximizes your togetherness. Candle light dinners, pool side strolls, unplanned chats, sharing dreams and much more. 
• While it's great to know you have plenty of options in terms of things to see and do, also schedule time to do nothing at all; this is, after all, a honeymoon.
• If your honeymoon is too short, you might want to spend it all out of the room exploring your destination. Or it may be otherwise. Discuss things beforehand. Remember, conceptually, a honeymoon is about exploring each other.

Don’t travel without!

• Know the place well before you go, and make a list of things you would need.
• Do not forget to put in things that have been specially bought to make this trip, the most cherished one. Get your lingerie, candles, bubble bath, special dresses, condoms, and a notepad Camera: Buy one if you haven’t. Collect a memorabilia. Take home two albums, one for the family, and one, just for the two of you.
• Spare cash: Just in case there is a need, have it at easy disposal.

Be considerate of your spouse's wishes.

This is about the two of you. Take care of each other’s needs, feelings, and all the ulterior emotions. Be considerate and loving, besides being pampering and passionate. It also about showing understanding and compassion beyond your romantic rendezvous.

Honeymoon is once in a lifetime (for most), so plan, and plan well. But once you are there, just let yourself loose and have a nice time. Don’t struggle too much to make it perfect, it’s just one of the many romantic trips to come.

Top 10 excuses used to avoid having SEX

The humble headache has had its day as far as excuses to avoid sex are concerned, for now the reigning white lie to snub a romp is 'I'm too tired', says a new survey. "And it's hardly surprising when we are all working longer hours than ever before and have so many things to worry about. The top ten excuses as per the survey are :

                                                                                1. Too tired

                                                                2. 'I'm not in the mood'

                     3. 'I've got a headache'

4. 'I've got to get up early in the morning'

5. 'I can hear one of the children'

6. 'You need a shower'
 

7. 'I'm pre-occupied with work'  

8.  'Too soon in our relationship'

           9. 'I'm angry with you'
 

 10 . 'I've got a bad back'

Source: http://getahead.rediff.com/report/2009/sep/17/top-10-excuses-people-use-to-avoid-sex.htm

4 Must Try Sexual Positions

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  Sex on the bed's edge - In this position, you sit on the bed's edge, your girlfriend sits on top you and u enter her from below. Her breasts are there for you to suck and lavish. The postion is easier for the girl, as she controls the quickness of the act, and it gives her liberty to tease you and go mad with desire.
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  

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    Sex against the wall : Pin you lady againt the wall of your room, her one leg wrapped to urs, and enter her. Hold her hands and look into her eyes all this while. If you are strong enough, you can even try lifting her. This will surely make her crave for u all the more.
  
  
  
  
  

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  Sex by your side - This is quite similar to spooning position. In this, you both lie on the bed, her's back toward you. You hold her breasts, and enter her from behind. This position though a little difficult, can be sexually satisfying for both the partners. This position is also suitable if you are keen to have a baby.
  
  
  
  
  

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   Legs on Shoulders: Let your girl lie on her back on the bed, keep her legs on your shoulders. This position allows for deep penetration. If you r craving for some rough sex, then try it out ;)
  
  
  
  
  

Love Hurts ! Managing Love Bites

Had a steamy love session with your hubby in the morning, just before going to the office, and the love marks are all over your body now?? Shit..that can get embarrassing.

Wondering why you weren't more careful. Don't worry, check out these 4 amazing home made remedies to hide those sexy love bites, and look forward to another, steamier session, when you come back ;)
Managing Love Bites