Musts For A Great Honeymoon

Plan it!

• Get down to a budget, pick a destination that interests you both, the best time to go there, what will be the weather conditions, what do you want to see there, what would you want to do etc etc. Make a list of the things that mean the most to you, and compare notes. Marriage is going to call for lots of compromise, and this is the place to start.
• When you do your calculations, make sure you take everything into account- transportation ticket prices for air, sea or ground travel, port fees, car, taxi, food snacks, meals, in-room service, entertainment entry fees, passes, tickets, shopping gifts for yourselves and those at home, and miscellaneous items. Perhaps, also count on some wedding-gift money to add to your stake.
• If going abroad get your passport and visas in place before the wedding.

Plan Smaller things

• Get a travel agent. It doesn't cost any more, and he or she can make all the arrangements without you having to worry about them.
• When you make reservations, let them know you're on your honeymoon. You never know if something good might surprise you two just because they know you are honeymooning. Like you may get upgraded to a better room at no charge or may be receive a welcome bottle of champagne.
• Rent a car to travel around locally.

Schedule it

• Honeymoon is passionate and romantic and should include in-room massages and spend time in a private Jacuzzi. Schedule it in a way that maximizes your togetherness. Candle light dinners, pool side strolls, unplanned chats, sharing dreams and much more. 
• While it's great to know you have plenty of options in terms of things to see and do, also schedule time to do nothing at all; this is, after all, a honeymoon.
• If your honeymoon is too short, you might want to spend it all out of the room exploring your destination. Or it may be otherwise. Discuss things beforehand. Remember, conceptually, a honeymoon is about exploring each other.

Don’t travel without!

• Know the place well before you go, and make a list of things you would need.
• Do not forget to put in things that have been specially bought to make this trip, the most cherished one. Get your lingerie, candles, bubble bath, special dresses, condoms, and a notepad Camera: Buy one if you haven’t. Collect a memorabilia. Take home two albums, one for the family, and one, just for the two of you.
• Spare cash: Just in case there is a need, have it at easy disposal.

Be considerate of your spouse's wishes.

This is about the two of you. Take care of each other’s needs, feelings, and all the ulterior emotions. Be considerate and loving, besides being pampering and passionate. It also about showing understanding and compassion beyond your romantic rendezvous.

Honeymoon is once in a lifetime (for most), so plan, and plan well. But once you are there, just let yourself loose and have a nice time. Don’t struggle too much to make it perfect, it’s just one of the many romantic trips to come.

Top 10 excuses used to avoid having SEX

The humble headache has had its day as far as excuses to avoid sex are concerned, for now the reigning white lie to snub a romp is 'I'm too tired', says a new survey. "And it's hardly surprising when we are all working longer hours than ever before and have so many things to worry about. The top ten excuses as per the survey are :

                                                                                1. Too tired

                                                                2. 'I'm not in the mood'

                     3. 'I've got a headache'

4. 'I've got to get up early in the morning'

5. 'I can hear one of the children'

6. 'You need a shower'
 

7. 'I'm pre-occupied with work'  

8.  'Too soon in our relationship'

           9. 'I'm angry with you'
 

 10 . 'I've got a bad back'

Source: http://getahead.rediff.com/report/2009/sep/17/top-10-excuses-people-use-to-avoid-sex.htm

4 Must Try Sexual Positions

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  Sex on the bed's edge - In this position, you sit on the bed's edge, your girlfriend sits on top you and u enter her from below. Her breasts are there for you to suck and lavish. The postion is easier for the girl, as she controls the quickness of the act, and it gives her liberty to tease you and go mad with desire.
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  

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    Sex against the wall : Pin you lady againt the wall of your room, her one leg wrapped to urs, and enter her. Hold her hands and look into her eyes all this while. If you are strong enough, you can even try lifting her. This will surely make her crave for u all the more.
  
  
  
  
  

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  Sex by your side - This is quite similar to spooning position. In this, you both lie on the bed, her's back toward you. You hold her breasts, and enter her from behind. This position though a little difficult, can be sexually satisfying for both the partners. This position is also suitable if you are keen to have a baby.
  
  
  
  
  

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   Legs on Shoulders: Let your girl lie on her back on the bed, keep her legs on your shoulders. This position allows for deep penetration. If you r craving for some rough sex, then try it out ;)
  
  
  
  
  

Love Hurts ! Managing Love Bites

Had a steamy love session with your hubby in the morning, just before going to the office, and the love marks are all over your body now?? Shit..that can get embarrassing.

Wondering why you weren't more careful. Don't worry, check out these 4 amazing home made remedies to hide those sexy love bites, and look forward to another, steamier session, when you come back ;)
Managing Love Bites

4 Ways to Teach your man to be Rocking in Bed

You seem to have finally found your ideal man-he is smart, sensitive, caring and sophisticated. But it turns out that he is a flop in bed. Now what do u do? Deciding the fate of a relationship on this one parameter sounds so selfish, but then sex is an important part of a relationship. Follow these tips and they might help you make your man rocking in bed.

1) Accept and Respect: Talking about sex issues is never easy. Chances that the conversation will get tense are quite high. But neverthless communicating your feelings is very important. May be your partner never knew what u desire in bed. So be gentle. Carefully choose your words. Imagine if the roles were reversed, how would you have felt. Most guys are willing to learn and improve. Its all about being patient and teaching them how to leave you gasping with lust in bed.

2) When a couple have been together, most men think that they dont need to seduce there partner any more. Or the guy might think that what worked with his ex might work with you too. Show him how you like to be touched, how you want your inner thighs to be caressed, how you want him to move his palms to your breasts and show him the right pressure as he circles your nipples.

3)Women hardly achieve orgasm through intercourse. Its the oral sex that they enjoy more. If your guy is not into oral sex and doesn't like going into it, then try other techniques. A well placed finger can feel as good as, or infact even better than the tongue.

4) Simultaneous orgasm is a myth. Infact men get distracted when they come, so focus on yourself first. Speed up your arousal by focussing foreplay more on you. If your guy is coming, then slow him down by withdrawing and turning his attention to pleasuring you instead.

Remember that men get turned on by knowing that their partner is loving what they are doing to her. So be responsive, and be encouraging.
The article has been sourced from Cosmopolitian January 2009 edition.

3 Most Exciting Places For A 'Quick-Sex' Quickie

Quickies are quick sex sessions that take less than half an hour. It’s not a complete sex session a quick way for sexual satisfaction. So next time you go out with your girl check out all the corners well ;) and girls make sure you wear easy-to-remove clothes. 3 most exciting places for sexual quickies are:

1) Conference Room
This space is perhaps the most exciting of all. But make sure you switch off the mikes ;)

2) Bathroom
Don't both much about the queue lining up outside the public utility. ( 'm sure you were not thinking of the bathroom in your homes)

3) Car
The much popular place for a quickie is the backseat of your car (the front seat has too many hindrances you see). The lack of space would allow you greater proximity and a more heated session. The more starved you are, the hotter the session.

8 Things Not To Do While Having Sex

Men usually enjoy sex. And that is exactly how it is supposed to be. Still many of us, struggle with various anxieties before going for it. Carrying your anxieties and worries to bed can actually affect your performance. Some of the common distracting thoughts are: What if I lose erection? Will I be able to satisfy her? Am I too fat? Will I be able to have an orgasm? At the same time being overconfident about your abilities on the bed can piss off your partner. Find a perfect balance and keep a note of things that you shouldn’t be doing while having sex.

1. Do not look around, while in bed. Reasons for your distraction can be many, but make sure to check things before you slip into bed. Bolt the doors well, check the curtains, remove all close-to-bed breakable objects, etc,etc.
2. Don't be an inactive, unresponsive lover. Make your moves; be expressive and let them know that you are into it.
3. Be it the fear of unwanted pregnancy, contraceptive measures or the nagging fear of failing to sexually satisfy your partner. Fix everything before hand. Just do not be anxious. For things that cannot be fixed, just don't get fettered. Just have fun.
4. Don’t Think Work. Keep your mind focused on sex and have a stress free lovemaking session.
5. Don’t make love making ‘Orgasm oriented’. Pamper your bodies, be passionate and rest shall follow.
6. Simply put, keep your past out of your bedroom and focus on the present.
7. Don’t Fart. Just DON’T DO IT.
8. Don't be harsh, careless or too serious. Be considerate to your lover, and try not to hurt them with any of your words or actions.

Read the complete article here.

How to conceive quickly?

It’s been time since you two are married to each other and now you both feel the need to add another member to the family. You have been trying to have a baby for quite some time but without much success. Don’t worry! This article brings you some important information on conceptions and tips on how to get pregnant. Proper timing is a crucial factor to make conception more likely. The best time to get pregnant is when you’re ovulating, between the 12th and 20th day of your cycle. However making love in certain sexual positions increases your chances of becoming pregnant even more. The best positions for getting pregnant are ones that are more likely to lead to conception you may have heard that there are certain positions that deposit the sperm closest to the cervix thereby increasing chances of pregnancy. See the pictures and learn how each position explained inhere, will allow you to conceive and get pregnant faster. Read : http://ping.fm/GvWlE