Wednesday, November 18, 2009

8 Things Not To Do While Having Sex

Men usually enjoy sex. And that is exactly how it is supposed to be. Still many of us, struggle with various anxieties before going for it. Carrying your anxieties and worries to bed can actually affect your performance. Some of the common distracting thoughts are: What if I lose erection? Will I be able to satisfy her? Am I too fat? Will I be able to have an orgasm? At the same time being overconfident about your abilities on the bed can piss off your partner. Find a perfect balance and keep a note of things that you shouldn’t be doing while having sex.
  1. Do not look around, while in bed. Reasons for your distraction can be many, but make sure to check things before you slip into bed. Bolt the doors well, check the curtains, remove all close-to-bed breakable objects, etc,etc.
  2. Don't be an inactive, unresponsive lover. Make your moves; be expressive and let them know that you are into it.
  3. Be it the fear of unwanted pregnancy, contraceptive measures or the nagging fear of failing to sexually satisfy your partner. Fix everything before hand. Just do not be anxious. For things that cannot be fixed, just don't get fettered. Just have fun.
  4. Don’t Think Work. Keep your mind focused on sex and have a stress free lovemaking session.
  5. Don’t make love making ‘Orgasm oriented’. Pamper your bodies, be passionate and rest shall follow.
  6. Simply put, keep your past out of your bedroom and focus on the present.
  7. Don’t Fart. Just DON’T DO IT.
  8. Don't be harsh, careless or too serious. Be considerate to your lover, and try not to hurt them with any of your words or actions.
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